{"id":8511,"date":"2021-08-28T14:10:54","date_gmt":"2021-08-28T14:10:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/haberglobal.com.tr\/yasam\/pandemide-ask-baskadir-flortte-asi-sorunsali-129213"},"modified":"2021-08-28T14:10:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-28T14:10:54","slug":"pandemide-ask-baskadir-flortte-asi-sorunsali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/2021\/08\/28\/pandemide-ask-baskadir-flortte-asi-sorunsali\/","title":{"rendered":"Pandemide a\u015fk ba\u015fkad\u0131r! Fl\u00f6rtte ‘a\u015f\u0131’ sorunsal\u0131…"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Leslie Gray Streeter, \u201cBu kadar olur! Ruh ikizim gibi\u201d dedikten \u00e7ok k\u0131sa bir s\u00fcre sonra kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakinin tam da \u00f6yle olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlad\u0131. Her \u015fey ne de g\u00fczel ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131… Bir fl\u00f6rt uygulamas\u0131 \u00fczerinden e\u015fle\u015fmi\u015flerdi ancak a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u015f diyalo\u011fu pek de standart olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Tesad\u00fcfen ikisi de Florida’dan Baltimore’a ta\u015f\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n

Leslie’nin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki adam profil foto\u011fraf\u0131nda, efsanevi R&B grubu Bozy II Men’in \u00fcyelerinden Wanya Morris’i and\u0131r\u0131yordu. Bu benzerli\u011fi s\u00f6yledi\u011finde adam g\u00fcld\u00fc zira o da 90’lar R&B hayran\u0131yd\u0131. Wanya Morris’e benzetilmek ho\u015funa gitti, birlikte uzunca bir s\u00fcre 90’lar muhabbeti \u00e7evirdiler.<\/p>\n

‘HABER\u0130N OLSUN A\u015eI OLMADIM’ DED\u0130 VE…<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bulu\u015fmak i\u00e7in ad\u0131m\u0131 atan Leslie oldu: \u201c\u015eark\u0131 s\u00f6yleme fasl\u0131n\u0131 online’dan offline’a ta\u015f\u0131sak m\u0131, kahve de i\u00e7eriz…\u201d<\/p>\n

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Adam, \u201cHarika olur\u201d yazd\u0131 ve muhabbete nokta koyan o c\u00fcmleyi kuruverdi: \u201cAma a\u015f\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m haberin olsun.\u201d<\/p>\n

Leslie \u201c\u00c7ok \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fcm. Aray\u0131\u015f\u0131nda umar\u0131m mutlu olursun\u201d yazd\u0131 ve kahveyi tek ba\u015f\u0131na i\u00e7mek i\u00e7in mutfa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n yolunu tuttu.<\/p>\n

\u201cElbette, sevimli bir tipti. Ama kimse potansiyel bir enfeksiyon riski alacak kadar sevimli de\u011fil!\u201d diyen Leslie \u015f\u00f6yle devam ediyor: \u201cYedi ya\u015f\u0131nda bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu olan, yani a\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7ok k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu olan, bekar bir anneyim. 70 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki annemle birlikte ya\u015f\u0131yorum. Benim i\u00e7in a\u015f\u0131 olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131, ya\u015f\u0131, imla hatas\u0131 yap\u0131p yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 :), ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yer kadar \u00f6nemli. Belki \u00e7ok daha \u00f6nemli…\u201d<\/p>\n

New York’ta ya\u015fayan, ili\u015fkiler \u00fczerine bir podcast yay\u0131n\u0131 yapan ve ili\u015fki ko\u00e7u olarak ayr\u0131ca hizmet veren 34 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Ali Jackson, \u201cPek \u00e7ok insan a\u015f\u0131 olmam\u0131\u015f bir ki\u015fiyle bulu\u015fmaktan \u00e7ekiniyor\u201d ifadelerini kullan\u0131yor:<\/p>\n

\u201cBulu\u015fmalar ancak a\u015f\u0131lar sayesinde normale d\u00f6nebilir. En az\u0131ndan kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin sizinle ayn\u0131 fikirde olmas\u0131 laz\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n

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‘SADECE A\u015eI OLANLAR!’<\/strong><\/p>\n

Y\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u00fckteki pek \u00e7ok fl\u00f6rt uygulamas\u0131 a\u015f\u0131ya ili\u015fkin se\u00e7enekler sunuyor. Kriter olarak a\u015f\u0131 olmay\u0131 belirleyebiliyor, a\u015f\u0131 oldu\u011funuzu profilinizde g\u00f6sterebiliyorsunuz. Kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n baz\u0131lar\u0131 Game of Thrones referans\u0131 verip profillerine \u201cHouse of Biontech\u201d yaz\u0131yor. Baz\u0131s\u0131 ise \u00e7ok net… Pek \u00e7ok kullan\u0131c\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a \u201cSADECE A\u015eI OLANLAR\u201d yaz\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Washington DC’de ya\u015fayan 37 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki avukat Brady Francisco-Fitzmaurice \u201cBenim tamamen kap\u0131y\u0131 kapatmama neden olmaz ancak ona yak\u0131n bir noktaya gelir. T\u00fcm arkada\u015f grubum a\u015f\u0131 oldu ve onlar da sadece a\u015f\u0131 olmu\u015f insanlarla bulu\u015fmak istiyor\u201d diyor.<\/p>\n

‘A\u015eI OLUR OLMAZ UYGULAMALARA GER\u0130 D\u00d6ND\u00dcM’<\/strong><\/p>\n

Baltimore’da ya\u015fayan 24 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki grafik tasar\u0131mc\u0131 Maddie Wolf ise a\u015f\u0131 olmadan evvel uygulamalara girmiyormu\u015f. \u201cSosyal mesafeyi korumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir bulu\u015fma olsa bile v\u00fccut kimyas\u0131n\u0131n uyup uymad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilemiyordunuz. Ama a\u015f\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131 olur olmaz uygulamalara geri d\u00f6nd\u00fcm\u201d diyor.<\/p>\n

Maddie, fl\u00f6rt etti\u011fi insanlarla bulu\u015fmaya bile ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f ve \u015fu ana kadar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na hi\u00e7 a\u015f\u0131 olmam\u0131\u015f birinin \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Sohbette bunu sormad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dile getiren Maddie, \u201cLaf bir \u015fekilde oraya geldi\u011finde konusu a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131yor\u201d diye konu\u015fuyor.<\/p>\n

Peki, Maddie’nin a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 yoldan devam etmekte fayda var… Ne zaman sormak gerekir?<\/p>\n

Jackson \u015f\u00f6yle yan\u0131tl\u0131yor: \u201cTan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir insan\u0131n t\u0131bbi ge\u00e7mi\u015finin tamam\u0131na hakim olamazs\u0131n\u0131z. \u00d6nceden b\u00f6yle konu\u015fmalar yap\u0131lmazd\u0131. Yani ilk bulu\u015fmada ‘Z\u00fchrevi hastal\u0131klara kar\u015f\u0131 a\u015f\u0131 oldun mu’ diye sorulmazd\u0131 de\u011fil mi? Ama zaman \u00e7izelgesi farkl\u0131. Garip bir durum oldu\u011fu a\u00e7\u0131k ancak hemen ilk ba\u015fta olmasa da sorulmas\u0131 da gerekiyor.\u201d<\/p>\n

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\u0130SPAT MI \u0130STEYECE\u011e\u0130Z?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u015e\u00f6yle bir durum da var elbette. Kar\u015f\u0131daki \u201cEvet, a\u015f\u0131 oldum\u201d dese bunu ispatlamas\u0131n\u0131 istemek de \u00e7ok garip olur. Kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakinin s\u00f6z\u00fcne g\u00fcvenmek durumunda kalaca\u011f\u0131z \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc b\u00f6ylesi bir paranoya ya\u015farken \u201cfl\u00f6rt etmek\u201d \u00e7ok sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olmayacakt\u0131r. Ancak bu noktada da asl\u0131nda i\u015fin ba\u015fka bir boyutu devreye giriyor.<\/p>\n

De\u011fer yarg\u0131lar\u0131. Asl\u0131nda \u201cA\u015f\u0131 oldun mu\u201d diye sorararak onu al\u0131koyan bir sa\u011fl\u0131k problemi veya bir kondisyon yoksa ve buna ra\u011fmen a\u015f\u0131 olabilecekken olmam\u0131\u015fsa b\u00fcy\u00fck oranda hayata dair d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesini de anl\u0131yoruz. Elbette \u201cA\u015f\u0131 oldun mu\u201d sorusunu a\u015f\u0131 olmam\u0131\u015f bir birey de sorabilir ve \u201cOlmad\u0131m\u201d yan\u0131t\u0131n\u0131 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ruh ikizini buldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir.<\/p>\n

metin.aktasoglu@haberglobal.com.tr<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kaynak:<\/strong> Bu haberdeki bilgilerin b\u00fcy\u00fck bir k\u0131sm\u0131 Washington Post’ta “For some singles, finding out a potential love interest isn\u2019t vaccinated can stop romance cold” ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla yay\u0131nlanan makaleden derlenmi\u015ftir.<\/em><\/p>\n

Kaynak: \u00d6zel Haber<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

<p>Leslie Gray Streeter, \u201cBu kadar olur! Ruh ikizim gibi\u201d dedikten \u00e7ok k\u0131sa bir s\u00fcre sonra kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakinin tam da \u00f6yle olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlad\u0131….<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":8512,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[188],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8511","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yasam"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8511","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8511"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8511\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8512"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8511"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8511"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8511"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}