{"id":10640,"date":"2021-09-02T05:16:01","date_gmt":"2021-09-02T05:16:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/haberglobal.com.tr\/yasam\/gozyaslari-icinde-anlatti-31-yil-once-evlatlik-verilen-elif-yoruk-biyolojik-ailesini-ariyor-130013"},"modified":"2021-09-02T05:16:01","modified_gmt":"2021-09-02T05:16:01","slug":"gozyaslari-icinde-anlatti-31-yil-once-evlatlik-verilen-genc-kadin-biyolojik-ailesini-ariyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/2021\/09\/02\/gozyaslari-icinde-anlatti-31-yil-once-evlatlik-verilen-genc-kadin-biyolojik-ailesini-ariyor\/","title":{"rendered":"G\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131 i\u00e7inde anlatt\u0131: 31 y\u0131l \u00f6nce evlatl\u0131k verilen gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n, biyolojik ailesini ar\u0131yor"},"content":{"rendered":"

<\/p>\n

Mersin\u2019in Dalakderesi Mahallesi’nde ya\u015fayan 36 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Elif Y\u00f6r\u00fck, hen\u00fcz 5 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken, a\u011fabeyi Pa\u015fa ile birlikte Antalya\u2019da \u00e7ocuk esirgeme kurumuna b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131. \u00dcvey anneleri taraf\u0131ndan kuruma getirilen iki karde\u015f, hen\u00fcz kay\u0131tlar\u0131 yap\u0131lmadan, y\u0131llard\u0131r \u00e7ocuk hasreti \u00e7eken Mersinli Zeki-Senem Y\u00f6r\u00fck \u00e7ifti taraf\u0131ndan evlat edinildi. Kimlikleri de olmayan iki karde\u015f, Mersin\u2019de Y\u00f6r\u00fck \u00e7iftinin evlatlar\u0131 olarak b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te Elif Y\u00f6r\u00fck evlendi ve bir k\u0131z \u00e7ocuk annesi oldu. A\u011fabeyi Pa\u015fa da bug\u00fcn evli ve 3 \u00e7ocuk babas\u0131 bir maden m\u00fchendisi.<\/p>\n

E\u015fi vefat eden ve bug\u00fcn 16 ya\u015f\u0131nda olan k\u0131z\u0131yla birlikte Dalakderesi Mahallesi’nde babas\u0131 Zeki Y\u00f6r\u00fck ile birlikte ya\u015fayan Elif Y\u00f6r\u00fck, yakla\u015f\u0131k bir ay \u00f6nce babas\u0131yla konu\u015farak biyolojik ailesini bulmaya karar verdi. Evlat edinildiklerinde kimlikleri olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6nceki soyad\u0131n\u0131 bilmeyen gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n, hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 an\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 sosyal medyada payla\u015farak, ailesini bulmak i\u00e7in herkesten yard\u0131m istedi.<\/p>\n

“1990’DA \u00dcVEY BABAM \u00c7OCUK ES\u0130RGEMEYE BIRAKTI”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Babas\u0131 Zeki Y\u00f6r\u00fck\u2019\u00fcn de biyolojik ailesini bulmas\u0131 i\u00e7in tam destek verdi\u011fi Elif Y\u00f6r\u00fck, hayat \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc anlatt\u0131. Hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kadar\u0131yla Antalya\u2019da 1990 y\u0131l\u0131nda \u00fcvey annelerinin a\u011fabeyi ile birlikte kendisini \u00e7ocuk esirgeme kurumuna b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirten gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n, “\u015eimdiki ailemin bizi ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyorum. K\u0131z karde\u015fimi hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum; 1,5 ya\u015flar\u0131ndayd\u0131 ad\u0131 Ay\u015feg\u00fcl\u2019d\u00fc; a\u011fabeyimle ikimiz bakard\u0131k ona. Ama \u00fcvey annemizin \u015fiddetini hi\u00e7 unutmuyoruz, \u00e7ok i\u015fkence ederdi bize; ad\u0131 \u015eehriban\u2019d\u0131. Babam\u0131z Mustafa o zamanlar kamyon \u015fof\u00f6r\u00fcyd\u00fc, bo\u015f kald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da otob\u00fcs s\u00fcrerdi. Bunlar\u0131 hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum” dedi.<\/p>\n

Karde\u015fi Ay\u015feg\u00fcl\u2019\u00fc hi\u00e7 unutmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 vurgulayan Elif Y\u00f6r\u00fck, “Antalya Ahatl\u0131 Mahallesinde ya\u015f\u0131yorduk. Biz, \u00f6z annemin vefat etti\u011fini zannediyorduk ama son edindi\u011fim bilgilere g\u00f6re, babam annemden bizi ka\u00e7\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. Babam aslen Kayseriliymi\u015f, bizi \u00f6z annemizden ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131p Antalya\u2019ya getiriyor, orada bir kad\u0131nla evleniyor. \u00dcvey anne de bizi istemedi\u011fi i\u00e7in yurda b\u0131rak\u0131yor. Ay\u015feg\u00fcl de bu kad\u0131ndan ama babam\u0131z ayn\u0131” diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

“\u0130NANMADIM, KONDURAMADIM, D\u00d6RT D\u00d6RTL\u00dcK BAKTILAR”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Yurda g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcld\u00fcklerinde kendisinin 5 ya\u015f\u0131nda, a\u011fabeyinin de 2-3 ya\u015f b\u00fcy\u00fck oldu\u011funu dile getiren Y\u00f6r\u00fck, “Esirgeme k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 ben hat\u0131rlam\u0131yorum ama o zaman ismi Pa\u015fa olan a\u011fabeyim net hat\u0131rl\u0131yor. Bu ailemi de \u00f6z ailem bildi\u011fim i\u00e7in hi\u00e7 yad\u0131rgamad\u0131m, \u00fcz\u00fclmedim. Ortaokul d\u00f6nemlerimde baz\u0131 hat\u0131ralar canlanmaya ba\u015flad\u0131 ve anneme \u2018Benim bebeklik foto\u011fraflar\u0131m nerede, beni nerede do\u011furdun?\u2019 diye sormaya ba\u015flad\u0131m. Sonras\u0131nda da etraf\u0131mdan duymaya ba\u015flad\u0131m. \u0130nanmad\u0131m, konduramad\u0131m hi\u00e7bir zaman, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir aile severse ancak bu kadar sevebilirdi, ancak bu kadar iyi yeti\u015ftirebilirdi beni. Rahmetli annem, do\u011furmadan anne olmaya en iyi \u00f6rnektir, d\u00f6rt d\u00f6rtl\u00fck bakt\u0131, bir dedi\u011fimi iki etmedi, her hatamda beni ba\u011fr\u0131na bast\u0131. Onun hakk\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6deyemedim, \u00f6deyemem de. Benim annem odur ama yine de insan ge\u00e7mi\u015fini, k\u00f6k\u00fcn\u00fc merak ediyor” ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n

“AY\u015eEG\u00dcL’\u00dc R\u00dcYALARIMDA G\u00d6R\u00dcYORUM”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ge\u00e7mi\u015f y\u0131llarda da biyolojik ailesini bulmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc, ancak \u015fu anki ailesine nank\u00f6rl\u00fck yapmak istemedi\u011fi i\u00e7in bug\u00fcne kadar konuyu hi\u00e7 a\u00e7mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyen Y\u00f6r\u00fck, “\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bize evlatl\u0131k oldu\u011fumuzu hi\u00e7 hissettirmediler. Yakla\u015f\u0131k 1 ay \u00f6nce babam konu\u015fmak istedi; sonras\u0131nda da ben duramad\u0131m, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc Ay\u015feg\u00fcl\u2019\u00fc r\u00fcyalar\u0131mda g\u00f6r\u00fcyordum. Bir ad\u0131m atmak istedim, babam\u0131n da destek olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm ve \u00e7ok iyi kar\u015f\u0131lad\u0131. Sosyal medyada Antalya sayfas\u0131nda payla\u015f\u0131m yapt\u0131m. Babam da zaten y\u0131llard\u0131r ailemizi bulmak istiyormu\u015f ama rahmetli annem b\u0131rak\u0131p gitmemizden korktu\u011fu i\u00e7in istememi\u015f. \u0130nsan anas\u0131ndan babas\u0131ndan gitmez, gidemez. Benimki sadece merak, ba\u015fka bir amac\u0131m da yok, her \u015feye de haz\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131y\u0131m” \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n

“O ADAMA 32 YILDIR KAFASINI YASTI\u011eA NASIL RAHAT KOYDU\u011eUNU SORMAK \u0130ST\u0130YORUM”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Biyolojik babas\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131karsa \u2018baba\u2019 demek istemedi\u011fini vurgulayan gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n, “O adama, ortaya \u00e7\u0131karsa 32 y\u0131ld\u0131r kafas\u0131n\u0131 yast\u0131\u011fa nas\u0131l rahat koydu\u011funu sormak istiyorum. Benim babam beni 1 saat g\u00f6remeyince kahroluyor, o 32 senedir nas\u0131l dayanm\u0131\u015f, ya\u015f\u0131yorsa bunu sormak istiyorum. Karde\u015fimin hi\u00e7 su\u00e7u yok, \u00f6\u011frendiklerime g\u00f6re annemin de su\u00e7u yok, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc babam bizi ka\u00e7\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. Annemle ilgili hi\u00e7bir bilgi yok” dedi.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

KES\u0130LEN PARMAKLARINDAN TANIDILAR<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sosyal medya payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131na a\u011fabeyi ile k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckl\u00fck foto\u011fraflar\u0131n\u0131 da ekleyen gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n, payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n ard\u0131ndan \u00e7ok fazla telefon geldi\u011fini, Antalya\u2019da o d\u00f6nemdeki ev sahiplerinin ve kom\u015fular\u0131n\u0131n kendisine ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. Y\u00f6r\u00fck, kom\u015fular\u0131n\u0131n kendisini foto\u011fraftan ve k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckken kesilen sa\u011f elinin iki parma\u011f\u0131ndan tan\u0131d\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 belirterek, “\u00dcvey annem, bizden sonra babamdan bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f ve Ay\u015feg\u00fcl\u2019\u00fc de al\u0131p Kayseri\u2019ye gitmi\u015f. Babam da oradan ayr\u0131lm\u0131\u015f” ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n

“\u00c7OCUKLARI AYIRMAMAK \u0130\u00c7\u0130N \u0130K\u0130 KARDE\u015e\u0130 DE EVLAT ED\u0130ND\u0130K”<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 evlat edinen 78 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Zeki Y\u00f6r\u00fck ise y\u0131llarca \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, 13 y\u0131l ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 Fransa\u2019ya da tedavi olmak amac\u0131yla gittiklerini, ancak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n olamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendiklerini s\u00f6yledi. 1986\u2019da Mersin\u2019e d\u00f6nd\u00fckten sonra T\u00fcrkiye\u2019deki \u00e7ocuk esirgeme kurumlar\u0131na evlatl\u0131k ba\u015fvurusu yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 anlatan baba Y\u00f6r\u00fck, “Antalya\u2019dan gelen haber \u00fczerine e\u015fim oraya gitti. Biz bir \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in m\u00fcracaat etmi\u015ftik esirgeme kurumlar\u0131na. E\u015fim, bunlar\u0131n iki karde\u015f oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015f. Beni arad\u0131, ben de karde\u015fler ayr\u0131lmas\u0131n diye ikisini de almas\u0131n\u0131 istedim. \u00c7ocuk esirgeme kurumuna kayd\u0131 yap\u0131lmadan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ald\u0131k ve Mersin\u2019e getirdik. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n kimlikleri yoktu, ayn\u0131 hafta i\u00e7inde n\u00fcfusta kay\u0131tlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00fczerime yapt\u0131rd\u0131m. Ne mutlu bize ki, iki evlad\u0131m\u0131z oldu, 4 torunum var. D\u00fcnyalar\u0131 verseler birinin t\u0131rna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 veremem. D\u00fcnyada en mutlu insanlar oldu\u011fumuzu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. E\u015fime \u00e7ok yalvard\u0131m, \u2018ailelerini bulal\u0131m\u2019 veya \u2018\u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za s\u00f6yleyelim, onlar gitsin bulsun\u2019 dedim. Ama e\u015fim, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 elimizden alacaklar\u0131ndan korktu\u011fu i\u00e7in kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131” diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n biyolojik ailelerini bulmalar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ok istedi\u011fini dile getiren Zeki Y\u00f6r\u00fck, k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n bu giri\u015fimini de \u00e7ok destekledi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi. \u00d6zellikle annelerinin ve karde\u015flerinin bulunmas\u0131n\u0131 isteyen Y\u00f6r\u00fck, “Bilakis memnun oldum, \u2018Bul getir k\u0131z\u0131m. Ben onlara da babal\u0131k yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u2019 dedim” ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n

Kaynak: \u0130HA<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

31 y\u0131l \u00f6nce Antalya’da \u00fcvey anneleri taraf\u0131ndan a\u011fabeyi ile birlikte \u00e7ocuk esirgeme kurumuna b\u0131rak\u0131lan ve Mersinli bir aile taraf\u0131ndan evlat edinilen…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":10641,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[185,188],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10640","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-manset","category-yasam"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10640","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10640"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10640\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10641"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10640"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10640"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/istanbulchannel.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10640"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}